Okay, I'm going totally BSC, but not in an "OMG, he needs to propose NOW" way, in an "OMG, he's going to break up with me" way.
BF has suddenly become super distant, non-responsive, and seemingly just bummed out in general. I got him to cop to the fact that me not being at home for Thanksgiving was part of the issue - it's easier for him to be away from me when he's on the road, but when he goes home it makes it harder. He has mentioned how it's hard to have a healthy relationship when we don't see each other for months at a time (we haven't seen each other since Labor Day weekend). He has almost completely stopped putting in any effort in doing the little things that have always made me so happy... sweet texts in the morning, trying to FaceTime/Skype whenever we get the chance, the little reassurances that I have told him I need, for whatever reason.
I have been trying so hard to stay positive, and trying to initiate some of these little things, but it's hard to even get the reciprocation. For example, this morning, I texted him a sweet message, and over an hour later I get "Sorry, been busy. Hope you have a great day." So I wrote back "I LOVE YOU!" ... no response... a little while later "I love you?"... no response... then finally "Luv ya"... It's just not sitting well with me.
I am going to Florida for work today, and he is leaving for Texas tomorrow, so there's no time for us to even possibly see each other before his company Christmas party in two weeks.
My best friend told me to relax, that I was totally overanalyzing things, and that nothing has even happened yet. But I feel like he's totally pulling away & that I'm about to get my heart broken... something I never thought I would feel with him. I just don't know what to do... I have been on the verge of tears for the last two days, and broke down & cried last night when we got off the phone because no matter how hard I tried, I couldn't get him to act normal. This sucks :-(
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