As stated, my step-father offered to pay for the RD (mostly my FI family will be flying in from the west coast). We can't afford an RD so he offered to cover it which is very very nice of him. My dad died when I was 16 (I am 23 now, the wedding is in ~2 years) but I can't shake this weird feeling I get knowing my step-father is paying for a somewhat large portion of my wedding. My mom and FI's dad each are helping us pay for the main event so it's not like they (or we) can pay for it. I guess I just need someone to tell me what I already know that's not just my FI. I know it's fine, it just feels strange for no apparent reason.