I was the MOH for my cousins wedding, now she is mine. From the start she has acted like she wants nothing to do with my wedding. She recently had a baby and that has only made things worse. Im trying not to let it bother me but I cant help but feel like crap. She just told me she can't come to the bachelorette party next week because of personal issues. Then I found out from the other bridesmaids that she still hasnt contributed a dime to my shower that the entire bridal party threw for me over two months ago. Its making me not even want to give her the gifts I purchased for thanking her for being in the wedding! Ugh! I want to just be happy and enjoy my day and it feels impossible