I asked my two best friends to be bridesmaids. Neither of them is terribly girly, but they will wear dresses and skirts; I am the definition of pretty fairy princess. I told them "Pick a dress in blue, green, purple, or copper, and take a picture so I can approve it before you buy it." That is ALL I am asking them to do for the wedding - that and show up on the day of and smile.
So last night I get an e-mail. One of them has found a shirt to wear. It's a sheer brown chiffon thing that's cut waaaay down low and has weird mesh insets with gaudy gold embroidery. She wants to wear it with tight slacks. And she's already bought it. Oh, and they've both dyed their hair - one blue, one purple.
We are having a formal wedding in a Catholic church. Better than half our guests are over 50. How do I tactfully say no way to pants?
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