Hi All,
i know usually at weddings there is the Mother-Son Dance (my FI and FMIL) and the Father-Daughter dance (me & my father). However, my situation is totally different.
my father died February 1 from heart failure. it still breaks my heart even thinking about it. so obviously, i will not be having a father-daughter dance. i even had considered dancing with my Grandfather (Poppy, mom's dad) since my other Grandfather (Grandaddy, dad's dad) is marrying us. however, my Poppy unexpectedly passed away November 30. Grandaddy is still going to marry us (he married all of his kids and grandkids). I just don't know that do here? any suggestions. i thought about asking one of my brothers, but it would be hard to pick one (i have 9 real brothers and 3 stepbrothers). my sister got married in August and instead of having the father-daughter dance, one of my older brothers made a side-show of pictures my dad & my sister together throughout the years and the background music was "Dance With My Father" by Luther Vandross (one of my dad's favorite artists). I feel awkward asking my stepfather. he's nice, i like him, but i really don't want him doing this. should i just skip it? i could possibly ask my God father (who happens to be my uncle) but i'm not honestly not sure if he'll do it.
any ideas? thoughts? suggestions?
