We have booked an amazing 2 week honeymoon to the south pacific. It however, is costing ALMOST as much as our wedding. We are doing a elegant yet budget friendly DIY wedding for under 10K.
The problem is, when most people find out where we will be honeymooning, they make remarks that I take offence to. Some people think we are being selfish spending so much money on ourselves for after the wedding, and think guests shouldn't contribute gifts or money to our wedding. My FH wants to keep the honeymoon quiet due to this, because he doesn't want people's preceptions bothering me.
Any advice what to say to people when they have negative input on our honeymoon plans?