My FI and I are having a hard time agreeing on when is "too soon" vs. "too late" to choose our wedding date. We're looking anywhere from 12-18 months from now... I was told by my priest that we need to book the church at LEAST a year in advance, and I know that the FILs are out of town on business almost constantly and would appreciate the extra notice... But I can't get FI to sit down and tell me, spring, summer, or fall!!! It's hurting my feelings. He reassures me that he loves me and wants to marry me, BUT he says I'm "worrying about it too soon." We've been engaged for 5 months now and have done absolutely NOTHING. When do we start?!