Why do people still not like me?

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

I changed my SN like everyone said to do so that I didn't have to apologize but you guys still don't accept me!? What's up with that!?

You guys knew it was me right off the bat!

KatWAG · October 2012

Hmmm. I am sure it doesn't have anything to do with what you said on the grand baby post. Or the fact that people silly haven'tforgotten about your little temper tantrum from last week.

Also, they meant create a completely different SN.

rajahmd · October 2012

Goodness gracious, no one likes you because of how you act and what you say. Take, for instance, your recent post about pretending to have fertility issues. Just plain uncalled for and rude. Change the way you post and what you say, and people might just like you more.

Jen4948 · October 2012

Maybe it's because of your line: "Manipulation is the key to life" ?

If you want to be liked, I would suggest that you make yourself likeable.

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

OMG it was a joke people! Lighten up!

wrigleyville · October 2012

I'm fairly positive this is Kwills anyway, so she already has about eight different AEs.

rajahmd · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:c5eda473-9413-4bc2-835f-a12c5523e57c">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]OMG it was a joke people! Lighten up!
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

<div>Didn't come across that way. Especially given your history.</div>

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

You guys will like me one day. I'll show you! I'm a wonderful person. I'm funny, extremely good looking, smart and perfect in every way. Maybe we should all meet sometime and I can prove it.

crash2729 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:8a243d04-d13f-420e-b096-50523eae3c76">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]You guys will like me one day. I'll show you! I'm a wonderful person. <strong>I'm funny, extremely good looking, smart and perfect in every way.</strong> <strong>Maybe we should all meet sometime and I can prove it.
</strong>Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

Mary Poppins?

Do you make skinsuits? You are starting to get creepy

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:378c54f3-81c5-4896-82ad-f22a822bc2c1">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Mary Poppins? Do you make skinsuits? You are starting to get creepy
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

Now, what kind of question is that? Only someone creepy enough would even think of something like a skin suit. I prefer to make use of my time in different ways than you are imagining.

rdavidson827 · October 2012

Is your real name Cybil?

crash2729 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:47ecc2f2-e163-4be3-9cf4-7b0c2ea7572a">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Now, what kind of question is that? <strong>Only someone creepy enough would even think of something like a skin suit.</strong> I prefer to make use of my time in different ways than you are imagining.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]
No, Trolls sometimes say they want to make skinsuits out of people. It's the Troll way. I figured you would follow suit.

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:9e1007f7-95a5-4ac9-9191-9f2fd0bce56d">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]Is your real name Cybil?
Posted by rdavidson827[/QUOTE]

Why do people ask me this? Why would you think that's my name? It's obviously Laura and I thought you guys already knew that considering it's been used on multiple occasions.

wrigleyville · October 2012

Are you seriously so starved for attention that you need to stir the pot in multiple topics AND create new topics?

Go bother people in real life. Better yet, get a life.

wrigleyville · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:9e1007f7-95a5-4ac9-9191-9f2fd0bce56d">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]Is your real name Cybil?
Posted by rdavidson827[/QUOTE]

Sybil*

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:e91fac5b-588d-4809-9083-0c97b733c1eb">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : No, Trolls sometimes say they want to make skinsuits out of people. It's the Troll way. I figured you would follow suit.
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

Well, I'm no troll so I didn't get the memo about needing to say that.

thurmanpowell · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:2cb9d960-7443-4782-a4cb-c84d32863be0">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Well, I'm no troll so I didn't get the memo about needing to say that.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

No, you are a troll. I (and several other ladies) have gotten flack on here from our posts as well, but those posts have been actual questions about actual issues. They're not calling you a troll because they disagree with you, it's because of your attention whoring.

What the he!! do you think you're doing by posting about whether or not people like you every other day? If this isn't trolling what is?

rdavidson827 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:a06a4fd9-a9c2-4dc3-be20-8ebb758cfff0">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Sybil*
Posted by wrigleyville[/QUOTE]

Thanks Wrigleyville..... Sybil and her personalities.... would be the OP.... IJS <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-wink.gif" border="0" alt="Wink" title="Wink" />

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

The definition of a troll could easily apply to most if not all of the posters in here. The main part of being a troll is that the person who is trolling has intent to disturb. I have no intent to disturb anyone. I'm simply trying to make friends. I don't have many in real life and I'm really lonely. I need somewhere to have a conversation with real people.

rdavidson827 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:fd30f5a5-beba-4864-92bd-4dd4d88470ef">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]The definition of a troll could easily apply to most if not all of the posters in here. The main part of being a troll is that the person who is trolling has intent to disturb. I have no intent to disturb anyone. I'm simply trying to make friends. I don't have many in real life and I'm really lonely. I need somewhere to have a conversation with real people.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

Did you think that maybe the possibility of you not having many is based on your whole attitude and mentality as well as how you come across?

rsanna · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:fd30f5a5-beba-4864-92bd-4dd4d88470ef">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]The definition of a troll could easily apply to most if not all of the posters in here. The main part of being a troll is that the person who is trolling has intent to disturb. I have no intent to disturb anyone. I'm simply trying to make friends. I don't have many in real life and I'm really lonely. I need somewhere to have a conversation with real people.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

Maybe this is a life lesson to show you why maybe you don't have many in real life? Just saying. You refuse to apologize when you go BSC, and then expect everything to be all right. You insist you are right, even when you don't agree with the point you are making because you just HAVE to be right. The one common denominator here is you.

crash2729 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:fd30f5a5-beba-4864-92bd-4dd4d88470ef">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]The definition of a troll could easily apply to most if not all of the posters in here. The main part of being a troll is that the person who is trolling has intent to disturb. I have no intent to disturb anyone. I'm simply trying to make friends. <strong>I don't have many in real life and I'm really lonely</strong>. I need somewhere to have a conversation with real people.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

Do you talk to people IRL the way you've talked to people on this board?

freebread03 · October 2012

Laura, it takes a while to make friends, I totally get it. I don't have many close friends myself, and I totally understand wanting for closer girlfriends (because I feel this way too). However, I know that it takes a while to make friends--it doesn't happen overnight, IRL or here on TK. Be patient, participate in threads, don't say controversial things, let people get to know you, and don't beg people to be friends (which this post comes off as doing).

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:7e853afe-e953-410f-9d42-eba0c0de826c">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]Laura, it takes a while to make friends, I totally get it. I don't have many close friends myself, and I totally understand wanting for closer girlfriends (because I feel this way too). However, I know that it takes a while to make friends--it doesn't happen overnight, IRL or here on TK. Be patient, participate in threads, don't say controversial things, let people get to know you, and don't beg people to be friends (which this post comes off as doing).
Posted by freebread03[/QUOTE]

Thanks freebread. I'm really trying to get better with social situations. That's why I thought I might have a better chance making friends online.

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:b5aa7a64-5240-42d6-9cd4-57974ba1578f">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Do you talk to people IRL the way you've talked to people on this board?
Posted by crash2729[/QUOTE]

Just like someone else said in another post about not ignoring the elephant in the room... I can't ignore stupid.

freebread03 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:5cc3e059-144a-45e5-982d-58676ff06e8f">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Thanks freebread. I'm really trying to get better with social situations. That's why I thought I might have a better chance making friends online.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

<div>I don't know where you live or how old you are, but I've really enjoyed participating in rec league sports. This is really big in Washington DC (where I live) and I've met some really fun people. Just remember, people can't tell what kind of sense of humor you have on here until they get to know you--so even though you might be saying something tongue-in-cheek, it doesn't come off like that (since nobody knows you!)</div>

freebread03 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:a14d7b42-e5fe-4a14-a49c-1298ec82eff9">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Just like someone else said in another post about not ignoring the elephant in the room... I can't ignore stupid.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

<div>Seriously, DO YOU NOT LISTEN? Calling people stupid is not the way to make friends. I gave you some good, real-life advice, but somehow I think you just don't get it.</div>

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:17424fb6-931f-481b-a3db-0dd1219fa94e">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : Seriously, DO YOU NOT LISTEN? Calling people stupid is not the way to make friends. I gave you some good, real-life advice, but somehow I think you just don't get it.
Posted by freebread03[/QUOTE]

I didn't realize that it was my humor making the problem. Thanks for pointing that out I'll try not to try and be funny until you guys know me.

freebread03 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:2a3c86a7-2e60-4d3a-b65c-6a97f1463d9b">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]People don't like you because you refuse to take responsibility for your mistakes.
Posted by CMGr[/QUOTE]

<div>Good point CMGr. Accept responsibility, say sorry, and move on. Just like IRL.</div>

peterandlauraforever · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:2a3c86a7-2e60-4d3a-b65c-6a97f1463d9b">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]People don't like you because you refuse to take responsibility for your mistakes.
Posted by CMGr[/QUOTE]

No, I think it's pretty obvious that people in here just aren't as witty as I am therefore they don't understand my humor.

freebread03 · October 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_why-do-people-still-not-like-me?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:2834040a-2720-4842-bcbb-c407e43e1eabPost:3d7a94e5-c6ab-4224-9bf9-974b67776c57">Re: Why do people still not like me?</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Why do people still not like me? : No, I think it's pretty obvious that people in here just aren't as witty as I am therefore they don't understand my humor.
Posted by peterandlauraforever[/QUOTE]

<div>So wait, you're blaming this on others rather than just taking responsibility? I wish I could take back the time I spent actually giving you good advice, since you a) obviously don't care, and b) are so dillusional that you just don't get it.f</div>

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