My fiance and I booked a DJ months ago, and which point we had a discussion with him about what our expectations were for the wedding; what type of music, the flow ect. My fiance knows him, and has seen him work so he knows that everything will run smoothly, but the only thing we requested is that we don't play country music - we both hate it with a passion.
So, fast forward to last evening....my mother texted me : "so your dad and I were wondering what type of music you were going to play?". The only type of music my parents listen to is country. Knowing that we already discussed having no country music with our DJ, I tried to make a joke out of it by saying "Sorry, there will be not achey breaky heart played at our wedding. HA HA HA.". MY mom didn't think it was a good joke and proceeded to send me paragraph emails about how I was being rude, and how they would like to be able to dance (and evidently the ONLY music they can dance to is country), and we needed to play country!! ect.
I don't want to sound selfish (but I proablly do anyways), but this is our wedding, that we are paying for ourselves, and i don't want to be subjected to listening to music we destest all night long. By the way the majority of the guests share our same music tastes.
Does anyone have suggestions on a good way to handle this situation? OR a good compromise??