Any other brides going through this? I have divorced parents, my mom can't afford to contribute to any of it... and my father and I don't speak (he wouldn't have money to help anyway.)
This is very awkward to me.. it is hard to explain their personalities but I have never been crazy about them.. and with the FMIL and I, I believe the feeling is mutual, not to mention she is already a judgemental and somewhat conceited woman to begin with...
I am just angry at this situation, I can't help it. The wedding is in 3 months, and nothing has been done. I'm not the best at explaining the whole picture, but bascially I just can't stand the thought of them paying for the whole thing.
We are NOT close at all.. so it isn't as if I feel like I'm their daughter and it's all good. Because it's not. Sometimes I can't even stand to be around them.
The only thing that has been done so far is the venue has been partially paid for by them.
I feel like just postponing the wedding but that seems so silly...
I don't like the feeling of not being in control of my wedding, it's always going to be "up to them" and I'm going to have to ask permission for everything and have them feel entitled on the day. I know it would be a beautiful wedding(aren't all weddings?), but I don't want to have crappy feelings inside about things like this before, on the day of, or after....
Sorry just had to vent and wonder if anyone else is having grooms parents paying.
p.s. they won't even tell me how much they are willing to give us, or what kind of a financial position they are in...I have tried talking about it with them