My mom is incredibly frustrating. She thinks her opinion should matter for EVERYTHING for this wedding. She already came once with all my girls during shopping but was totally picking out things that the girls could already clearly tell I didn't want. She also sometimes makes my sister (and MOH) feel bad about being slightly overweight. So any dress she didn't like she'd tell my sister "wasn't flattering" since she knows my sis is a little self conscious and won't wear a dress that someone thinks looks bad. I think she should have no opinion and I just want to go with my BMs but she gets all insulted when I try to tell her that her opinion really doesn't matter because it's my "wedding vision", she doesn't have to wear it and it's just one more person to get to agree on a dress that shouldn't matter. She is paying for the entire, very expensive wedding (and my MOH's dress) so I feel like maybe I have to include her and maybe I'm just being a bitch. But I really want to do this with my girlfriends adn she has a completely different idea of what the dresses should be from what i want. Does anyone else have this issue? Has anyone had their mom feel like she needs to be involved in picking BM dresses?
Abigail and Emily born at 38w5d
"Two Babies, Two Boobies" - That's how I roll.