I'm Looking for suggestions on how to word my menu cards which will be a seperate insert included with my invitations. I like the idea of specifying each persons name that is invited (so guests feel less inclined to bring univited dates or children) for example: Mr. John Doe __ Will __ Will not be attending. But i also need them to indicate their choice of Chicken Beef or Fish. Should I include an individual RSVP/Meal selection card for each member of the family thats invited? Or should I just listed everyone's name on each card with a place to indicate their meal selection? Please help!