I am the mother of the groom and I am no longer married to the grooms father. the FOG and my husband and I are going to help my son and fiance get married in equal dollar amounts. No problem there, here is the dilemma: the father of the bride does not work, the step mom is saving her money for boobs...No I am not kidding...and says that they don't have the money to assist in the wedding, but the other day on FB I see that the FOB got a new crotch rocket. The Bride to be is embarrassed and at a loss to know how to handle this. The mother of the bride is not in the picture. I am having a hard time keeping my mouth shut and just being supportive, and my husband is insisting that we do not help more than the allotted amount ( I agree, but feel so bad for this girl, I could cry.)
How do we deal with this situation and keep some peace for ourselves and the young couple?