My bridesmaids picked their dresses out in April and were told they would need to order and pay for them by the 1st of June in order to have them in time. One of my Bridesmaids ask me to pay for hers and she would pay me back in a 2 weeks. She still hasn't paid me back. Everytime the topic of my wedding comes up she lets me know she doesn't have any money. Yet she keeps showing me all the new things she has just bought and telling me about the trips she is going on. She doesn't want to help with anything but still trys to be very pushy with how SHE wants things to be done in my wedding. I love her dearly and do not know how to deal with this without hurting her feelings. Any suggestions?