I am a bride to be and my fiance wants to invite them ..I said NO...I don't want them there. He says to me they want to see his son in a Tux....hello they can get him ready for the day and let him pick him up....Its no need for them to show up at Our wedding... We are having a small gathering with our close family and friends.. Because of our numbers its numerous family members I wont be able to invite. I feel that he needs to respect my feeling and move on .. They need to move on as well... Yes he will always be the father of there nephew and grandson but that is the it... We are not family and we wont be attending family events . Sorry I don't know these people and never met them .... They don't need to come to report back to his ex what happened and how everyone looked....Why cant people get a life and move on ... The past is the past and that's what it is ..This is a new season for us and they wont be included in that season.
He also says they are from the old neighborhood..and she used to watch him on the street...
I have told him my feeling on it and we are in disagreement ... This is at a high level for me on my list ..This is our day and seeing them will definitely ruin it ...
thoughts...
I've seen some of the other post ... and I just think that people cant live in the past... if they want the life back then dont move on to a new one.... You cant stand in the past forever and I also think its quite amusing especially if a person gets married numerous times and wants to keep the family .... it just doesnt work like that in the real world... just like leaving high school, then graduating from college ....keep it moving...