So yesterday BF took me to the flea market and it was my first time there. After checking everything out, we came upon the pets section. And one of the stalls had Chihuahua puppies. There was this adorable white 8-week-old male Chihuahua puppy that I fell in love with and I wanted to get him so badly.
But BF managed to talk me out of getting him. He kept saying things like "If you want a puppy, you shouldn't get him from here, this could be a puppy mill. If you really want one, I'll take you to the shelter and you can adopt one that really needs a home."
And I know he's right. I do know that but it was so dang hard to walk away from that puppy.
Anyway, later on, I was still down about not being able to get the puppy so BF says to me, "Hey, why don't WE get a dog?"
I think my jaw dropped. For one thing, we don't live together. And we've only been dating for about 6 1/2 months. And what happens if we break up? A dog is a big commitment that will last for at least 10 years. If we split up, the dog would have to go to one of us. And how would we share the financial responsibitlies?
I said all this to BF and he said "I know. I know it's a big commitment but I'm ready for it. And we would have to do tons of research and figure everything out before we got one but I think we can do it."
I asked him if he was doing this just to make me happy and he said no.
So I'm really tempted to do this...the timeline is getting a dog in a month or two months. But tell me honestly, is this a bad idea?