I am the first of my friends to get married, so I don't have a lot of wedding experience. I also don't know too much about etiquette. My parents weren't big on it, and I was taught to just treat people how I would want to be treated (ie: I never cared to get a thank you note, so I've never sent one. Don't worry! I will be sending thank yous for my wedding!)
So when we got engaged, my FI and I had this great idea that we would have our bachelor and bachelorette parties on the same night in Atlantic City, in different hotels of course. We suggested this to our friends and everyone was into the idea. Afterwards, I read that apparently, it was rude for us to give a suggestion for a bachelor/bachelorette party. Oops! Thankfully, I don't think any of our friends took any offense.
The question now is, since I suggested it, am I responsible for booking a room? My MOH told me her mom offered to help her pay for the bachelorette party, but now I feel guilty about making the suggestion, and am thinking I should book the room. My FI's friends have already booked a room for his party, but I haven't heard any new details about what we are doing. It makes me think perhaps I should step up and offer to book the room myself.