I picked my bridesmaids almost a year ago. Originally my wedding was going to be in September but I changed my venue and date and asked all 3 of them if it was going to be an issue. Well one backed out so I asked someone else to take her place and I am actually closer now to the girl who is taking her place so no biggie. The other 2 said it was fine and we all went dress shopping and everyone has their dresses now and things were moving along. I just got a phone call from one of the girls who said she "accidentaly" said yes to being in another wedding on that same day and totally forgot mine was in October. The other wedding is actually her best friend and now she is torn..I understand she wouldnt want to miss her best friends wedding but I just feel so betrayed I guess mostly because she forgot my wedding day and one of the girls had already backed out so that makes 2 in one month. Am I being over emotional?