My fiance and I are getting married in RI but live in CT...we want to hold our rehersal dinner the week before because not everyone can go the night before to RI. Would it be inappropriate to have a casual, fun BBQ as a rehersal dinner? We have a large lawn to "reherse" and then would have drinks, food, lawn games, etc. My parents think I should still do a restaurant but our whole wedding is very casual....anyone have a BBQ as their rehersal?