So my FI and I are getting married on a Thursday. However, it's not just because we were like "Thursday! Money saving!" or anything (so far the money "breaks" we've received have been very minimal). These are the reasons:
-He proposed with his "family ring" which had been used by his grandfather and father to propose to their future wives.
-My grandparents and parents were married on the date we have, which falls on a Thursday this year.
-We're doing a destination wedding, so we figured plenty of people wouldn't be able to come regardless of the day.
We thought that with the traditions of the generations we've incorporated into our engagement/wedding it wouldn't be too side-eyed by people. Definitely we understand that people might not come because of the day, the travel, expenses, time off, and a million other reasons that are legit. We had checked the date with our VIPs (mainly our immediate families and our wedding party) and all were cool with it except one who, realistically, won't be able to make it no matter when or where we get married. We also explained our reasons of wanting to continue a tradition (all the above mentioned marriages lasted and, as far as we both know, were quite happy ones), but it's not like we've called every invitee and shared it.
So my question: Would you side-eye a Thursday wedding invite? We're not going to change our date, I'm just curious. Would you side-eye it less if you knew the part about my grandparents/parents?
And if you're interested, it's in the evening on Thursday with a full dinner, open bar, no gap, etc.