This is the place I can vent, right? Because my FI and I have been together since 2009, got engaged Christmas 2011, and having the wedding May 16th, 2014... We have a 2-year-old son and have been saving up for this emotionally and monetarily for a while (obviously!)
His sister had offered to help plan the wedding, which was very generous, and I accepted. Because, of this, she knew the details that I wanted, such as my pretty unique color scheme, centerpieces, etc.
Well, his sister met someone while she was dating another guy in December, got engaged to him a month later, and their wedding is in the fall this year. She said she couldn't plan my wedding anymore because she'll be so into her own (understandable to a point).
Then, it gets hard to explain because you can't type her tone of voice as she talks to me about her own wedding. She keeps saying things like "well when I'm done with my wedding you can just use my chair sashes, I KNOW how short on money you are," but it isn't geniune, it's like a high-and-mighty tone, like she's doing me a favor. And she is using my colors (not suitable for fall anyway IMO) and my centerpiece idea and other things. And I know I'm being possessive but SERIOUSLY I've been planning this for over a year!
Maybe I'm being crazy, but I feel like she's driving me crazy with this guy that she's known for less than 5 months!