My fiancé and I got engaged in February and many of my parent’s friends are asking us what we want as an engagement gift? I think it is very nice that they would even offer but really unnecessary. The other issue we have is that our guest list is not finalized so we obviously cannot accept gifts from people who potentially won't even be invited to the wedding.
Once the guest list is finalized should we start registering for items and only tell people who explicitly ask to get us an engagement gift our info or should we just insist on no engagement gifts?