I'm looking for suggestions for how to deal w/having two dads who want to walk me down the aisle. I'd like to only have one person (if any) walk me down the aise and both of them want to do it.
The Background: My biological father left my mom and I when I was less than one but did come back into my life when I was in elementary school but to put it nicely, he was a jerk-stories abound but I'll keep this short. My mom remarried when I was 3 and my stepfather has been a real 'dad'-there for me no matter what no matter when. My bio dad and my relatinship has improved and we have traveled together in recent years. So, I would like bio dad to be involved in the wedding but feel like my stepdad should have the honor of the aisle walk.
The Drama: I read about a bride in a similar situation who had one dad start her walk and the other finish it-so I suggested to my bio dad to have him start me off then pass me onto my stepdad. He is enraged! He has said that if he doesn't walk me down the aisle and give me away then he is not coming to the wedding. I love his side of the family and feel that he sees this as an I'm chosing my stepdad and would cease communications etc. What should I do????