My fiance, my parents and myself have gone back and forth a million times about when things should start/end. Please help!! (warning: not a typical wedding so bear with us!)
This is in early/mid Sept -- everything is on the same property.
The main arguments have been whether there is too much time between ceremony and dinner and then also if there is enough 'dancing' time after dinner before ending the music and lighting the bonfire. thanks for any suggestions!
noon or 1pm - Photos of bride/groom and attendants before ceremony
3pm - quick outdoor ceremony (30 min or less)
after ceremony - cocktails, munchies & lawn games outdoors while DJ plays 'fun' background music (bride/groom will be taking a few fam photos w/ parents during part of this)
5pm - buffet style bbq dinner indoors (we're guestimating a little over an hr for everyone to eat?!)
6:30ish - after dinner - cut cake, put array of desserts out, first dance, father/daughter dance
8:30pm music/dancing ends
8:30ish - light bonfire for any guests who would like to stay and join us there for s'mores etc.
any thoughts would be appreciated! we aren't sure if it's too long or what. we don't expect everyone to stay for the fire. we think some younger folks / closer friends and fam will. we also didn't want to continue the music while the fire was going on because the bonfire area is far enough away from the building that it would awkwardly split people up too much for the small group we're expecting.