Are you adding the word 'obey' to your wedding vows?
I've decided that I want to add them to my wedding vows, I think it will be a shock for my fiance as I haven't told him yet - am I being old-fashioned?
I don't think it's a way of demeaning myself as a woman but just a way of honoring the event of our future together. My fiance has never, ever demanded or suggested that I obey him in any way, shape or form & I don't think that he ever would.
I feel it's the right thing to do for me & for us.