RSVP were due over a week ago. we gave final numbers to our carterers yesterday (but we can increase). we have a few weird situations. our reception venue suggested that they would set an extra table so if people showed up they could just sit there but I feel bad about that. so for these situations would you count of them not coming, put them at a table where they know people, or just put these people at this extra table and be done with it?
FI parents friends/neighbors that never RSVP - his parents said oh they aren't coming then. but his mom ran into her the other day and she said "oh we want to come, when is it?" so she was like oh no did you not get your invite? nope they got it she said oh no it's in the house and went on about who would water the flowers blah - so not coming, preset table, extra table?
my college roomie never RSVP - lives in AZ now and the wedding is in Ohio. I have reached out to her via phone, text, and FB with no response. I feel like I'm just bugging her if I ask one more time. so not coming, preset table, extra table?
FI cousin that never RSVP - told us at her wedding 3 weeks ago that she was coming but had yet to send her card in - we didn't think to clarify if just her and him were coming or the 4 children they have were coming with them. FI asked her after honeymoon and she said oh let me check who has the kids and acted like they didn't want to bring the kids so if it was their weekend they wouldn't be coming and we haven't heard from her since - so not coming, preset table, extra table?
or do we just keep bugging these people?