So my wedding is in August me and the FI are having a very small wedding 40 of our closet family & friends. Sent out those invites and only got back 10 responses so far there deadline is a week away. Is that normal... We even had stamps on the response cards. We have a deadline with our caterer and the hall which is this month to get an actual head count should I give them a courtesy call to make sure they are coming? My photographer who is a very good friend of mines said a lot of his brides he has worked with did courtesy calls to make sure they didn't forget. Any brides having a similar issue like mines?