I had three bridal showers planned for me, without any say from me at all. No one planning them thought to ask for my guest list and in fact the woman who planned one isn't even invited. So many of the people coming to these aren't invited, but our venue is VERY small and already crammed because my mother in law kept inviting her friends. There is literally not space for even one more person. But I don't know what to do about all these people from the showers! Help!