So, Ive been trying to talk to my FI about registry items. He is flat out against doing a registry and just wants to do a honeymoon registry. I mean I understand his point. We have an established home and not much room. I mentioned to him about donating or selling items and registering for new items so our guests are able to have something to go by if they want to get us a gift. He said he doesnt want new stuff and is just happy. I mentioned to him that some people tend to think honeymoon registries are rude and "cashgrabby". He said then "we'll do a honeymoon registry and if they dont want to do that, they can do whatever". I was like you cant just say that! Ugh.. Men. I think he is scared we will not be able to have a honeymoon. We were recently relocated for his job and while we thought this was going to be a good move financially, we had numerous financial set backs. We burned through our savings and have pretty much nothing left. We're pushing it with our wedding but we'll make do. I told him if we cannot afford it, we dont need to go on a honeymoon right after the wedding. He is just stubborn and hard headed and did not agree. I dont agree with solely doing a honeymoon registry if we even do one and letting guests fend for themselves and buy us whatever. What on earth do I do? Should I just register without him? Suck it up and do what he wants? Not do anything?
Edited: I understand the honeymoon registry isnt for paying for the honeymoon but for helping with it. Just sticking this in here so I dont get reprimanded!