FI & I have decided to put together our own vows. This is what I have come up with so far, feedback welcome!
XXXXX, because I love who you are now and who you are yet to
become, I promise to treat you the way you want to be treated, and give you the
respect you deserve. I promise to maintain your trust with my words and
actions. I promise to always be your partner in crime and adventure, your
sous-chef, and your friend. I will listen to you and learn from you, support
you and accept your support. I will listen, both to what you say, and to what
you don’t say. I promise to always share what’s in my heart, even if I am
afraid. I will strive to be my best self for you knowing that together we will build a life far
better than either of us could imagine alone. I will be proud to be your wife
and your best friend.