I am preparing my shower invite list to hand off to my MOH. I have cousins that live across the country - clearly they will not be making it to the shower- and I only have heard that 1 has booked a flight for the wedding so far. My mom is telling me I should send them an invite anyways (so they don't feel left out and know where I am registered). I feel like this seems a little gift-grabby. What do you think? How did you handle out of town guests with shower invites??