Wedding Invitations & Paper

Do I invite her or not?

My FI's friend is dating a girl who hates me. We have never gotten along and I am worried that if she comes she will start something. I don't want to insult his friend and not invite him, but I also would prefer he not bring her. What should I do?

Re: Do I invite her or not?

  • Nothing like that just drama. Her sister told me that at their cousins wedding she drank too much and started an argument with other guests.
  • This shouldn't even be a question b/c your answer is in your first statement. 'My friend is dating a girl." Bam. Invited. 


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  • You need to invite her.    One of DH's best friends was dating someone many of us did not like.   She spied on me in college (seriously - unscrewed the peephole in my door and looked in the room), tried to break up DH and me and was an all-around snatch.

    Guess what - she still came as the GM's date and all was fine.   If she made a scene, she would have been the crazy person that had to be removed from my wedding and I still would have had a great time. 
  • mlg78mlg78 member
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    What does your FI think? What does he think of the way this woman treats you? Is it important enough that his friend be there knowing that she'll come along? I don't think this is a decision for you to make -- it's for only your FI to determine since it's his friend, not yours.
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