Alright, need some help. I'm in a wedding and I'm a brides maid. I'm having a hard time making a decision. I've been friends with the groom for a very long time and the bride only until they met years ago.. we don't hang out often, they never hang out with me when I ask them... The maid of honor dropped out, one of the other girls and I are basically putting on the bach party. I am bringing food and wine and gift for her. I have paid 130 for my dress while all the other girls got theirs on sale for 80-90 (We all have different dresses). The bride wants us to buy our own jewelry that she's picked out and shoes for 62. Which we can't even try on, we are ordering online so I'm not even sure they will fit and I have wide feet. I have medical bills that are over 300, my car is in need of repair very soon before it explodes. My dad is having knee surgery which knocks out part of the income in the house so I'm throwing extra money at my mum to help her.. I just can't see buying shoes for almost another near 100 for something that will be thrown off in 2 hours..I have a pair of shoes that will go with the dress perfectly too that I bought from new years.. I think it might be different if I was maid of honor..Please help! Half of what I'm being told is to drop out, but I don't want to do that to my friend. Also I really wasn't asked to be in the wedding.. I was told lol Thoughts?