I met my FI and it took us 3 months to decide we wanted to get married. We have been engaged now since January and living together. I love him but I keep having this nagging feeling that what if I make a mistake. What if I rushed and got to excited. How do I know it will last? All of my married friends were together for years so they knew that it could last. The day of our wedding will be our one year anniversary and I just can't help but be scared. I'm not a super lovey person and he is the definition of cheesy and cliché. I'm not all doe eyed and breathless. I love him and I can't imagine life without him. At the same time I'm sure my grandparents and so many other people felt the same way before they got married and now they are divorced. I have about three months left and I talk to him about it and every time we talk I feel better. Then the feeling comes back. I desperately don't want to end up like the crazy people in my family. So how do I know?!? Help!