Hello all,
My F and I will be getting married next year. We have 12 months to go and we are so excited!
Our current problem is: My grandparents (dad's side) have quite a few health issues. They cannot walk up and down stairs. They are also not well off financially and live in OR. We live and are getting married in Wa. My mom is worried that if we invite them, they will expect my parents to pay for their train ride, their hotel, their food, etc. We have had this problem with them in the past where my parents were expected to pay for everything during their visit. I'm on the fence about this since we have had issues like this in the past, so I understand where my mom is coming from, but at the same time, they are my grandparents and I would like for them to be at our wedding. Since it is my family, my F is supportive of whatever I choose.
Any thoughts?