Ok, I don't post much but need to get this off my chest.
Story begins that my FI said another woman's name while we were engaged in "adult activities". I got upset, we confronted it and dealt with it, and we moved on. He was never defensive, only apologetic and emotionally supportive as I worked through the trust issue that slightly reared up due to his misspoken name. He has never given me reason to suspect it was anything other than a Freudian slip. We're still a happy couple with the usual ups and downs that go with any relationship. This "other woman" is one of my bridesmaids, married, and was his coworker before he changed jobs. We still see her and her husband on a regular basis. That mishap was almost a year ago.
We're getting married in 8 weeks. This past week, while we were all hanging out, he accidentally called her "babe". That's one of his pet names for me. He corrected himself, referred to her by her name instead, and the conversation went on.
The first time she came up, I was a wreck for a while. Like I said, he was apologetic and emotionally supportive and has never given me a reason to think there is a bigger underlying issue. This new slip... It is starting to bother me. We talked about it briefly and I shrugged it off. I think I wanted to ignore it completely. And I still don't think there is anything to worry about as far as our relationship. It just bugs me and I'm a little off-put by the whole thing.
Like I said, I just needed to get everything off my chest. I love him, he is the one, and he treats me with nothing but respect and love. I don't want to be hurt by the second slip, but it's just nagging at me...