Is it me or is the art of RSVP a hopeless cause? I am so frustrated because I had planned a surprise party for my husband. His birthday was yesterday and I invited his friends 2 - 3 weeks in advance of the occasion. When contacting these people I made it clear that I needed to know whether they were coming or not by August 14th because I was ordering some cake and finger foods and the 14th was the last day I could order the food to get it in time for Saturday. Of course, I had to chase RSVP's on the 14th. Some of them were extremely excited saying they wouldn't miss it for the world, etc.
Then the day of the party at least 15 people just couldn't find a babysitter despite me telling them they could bring their kids, suddenly had to go to work, etc. And those were the people who just had the decency to tell me the day of they couldn't make it because of whatever reason. Then there was those who just didn't bother showing up. I was so irritated because I gave them three weeks notice to figure out what to do with kids, find sitters for pets, take off work, etc. Because they didn't show up, I spent twice as much on food. I wish these people would have just declined the RSVP from the very beginning.
I'm glad the husband had a good time, but I think this may be the last time I organize an event that requires money and RSVP's.