My uncle ia awesome and offered to take me and FI on vacation with him and most of my family. The only people on that entire side of my family are my dad, stepmom and little brother. My uncle offered to pay for me and FI because he knows that we are planning our wedding and wont be able to afford the trip and the wedding.
I feel awful that my little brother doesnt get to go. Its a Disney cruise to Cozumel. He will crushed when he finds out all of the cousins are going and he isnt. I asked my stepmom why they arent going. She said its because they just started remodeling their house and she doesnt want to ask my dad to spend more money.
My brother will be 13 at the time of the trip. I thought about offering to watch him for the 6 days if they will by his ticket. The problem with that is that he has pretty severe ADHD and if he doesnt stick to his routine, it can make him very difficult to handle. On top of that, this is completely selfish I know, but I want to enjoy the trip not babysit. It will be the first time FI and I are on vacation together.
I dont know if I should offer to take him or deal with feeling guilty that he cant go.
Advice?