We are having a small wedding. We intended to have about 80 guests. We sent out all the invites (we invited close to 100 expecting certain people to not attend but knew they still wanted an invite), paid the rentals and cake based on 80 people. Paid for everything based on 80 people.
We expected 80 of them to be able to attend. As it turns out we are not important enough to most of MY family or his mom's side of the family to request work off.
I just spoke with his cousin. Her family alone was 6 people. None of them will be attending because she 'can't get work off' however, she immediately informs me that they will all be visiting the area to go to Disneyland for her birthday. I feel like Disneyland is more important to her than our wedding. Her and my fiance were close when they were kids. I'm still a little shocked and very angry.
I'm also finding out that some friends that I considered to be good friends won't be coming because they have church that night.
It's like... thanks for letting us know where we stand in your eyes. Thanks for letting us know just how unimportant we are to you.
I may be overreacting and I may not have any right to be saying anything. But I still feel slighted.