Hello all, I just started planning and my wedding is over a year away, but I've already started to ask people that I love to be my BM and MOH, but I've started getting concerned, specifically in regards to my FSILs. My FH has four sisters total and I'm only relatively close with two of them, but I'm trying to not only keep the wedding party small, but also even on both sides. My FH is having trouble finding more than 4 GMs and I already have 3 BMs, my two sisters and FSIL through his brother (I'm one of her BMs this october). I'm much much closer to her than I am to my FH's sisters, so is it wrong of me to not invite them to be part of the bridal party? What can I say to them if they ask?
It's really not a definite thing, but I'm just trying to think ahead to minimize stress down the road, because I feel like this might become an issue... any help is extremely appreciated!