So my FBIL and FSIL got engaged about a month before my FI and I got engaged. There was a whole different set of problems related to that since my FBIL had originally told my FI he wouldn't propose till my FI did. They talked about it, we worked it through and sent them a nice engagement gift package with a variety of sentimental, meaningful gifts. When it was all said and done, with shipping the gift totaled about $125. We don't make a lot of money, I'm in school and my FI started a new job not too long ago. When we got engaged we got a package from my FSIL. It was a small gift, just for me. My FBIL didn't sign the card and it was a cheap little gift that was about $40. There was no mention of my FI and it's not something I'd ever buy for myself. I'm upset because they make a considerable amount more than we do and are registered for super expensive gifts for their wedding (1 bath towel starts at $75 on their registries) and I feel that if you are going to give your FBIL/FSIL a gift it should at least be meaningful. Am I wrong for being upset? Should I just grin & bare it? What can I do?