My fiance' just joined the Air Force. He hasn't left for BMT yet, but we will be getting married before he leaves for training. My question is for any of you girls who have been through this situation, do you have any advice for me? (His recruiter should be able to answer some of these, but he isn't the sharpest crayon in the box. Every time we have a question, he comes up with no answer. Not to mention all of the times he has not shown up for meetings because he had a girl at his place, or the time that he lost 7 guys paperwork and had to fabricate all of the paperwork before his office got inspected, or when a job became available, instead of giving it to the next person in line, he skipped and gave it to a girl he liked... yeah the recruiter is a piece of work and absolutely no help!)
How do I get put on his orders?
Will he enroll me in Tricare/DEERS before he leaves for training or does he do that during zero week?
If it is during zero week, what kind of paperwork do I need to send with him to training?
Will I be able to spend nights with him during Graduation Weekend?
When he goes to Tech School, if it is longer than 20 weeks a wife can go with him - after the first 30 days, will the AF pay for that move or is that out of pocket?
What are they allowed to have in basic? (I realize they can't have care packages or sexy photos, but are regular, decent photos allowed?)
What is the best part about being married to an Airman?