Hi all,
I never thought I'd actually be posting on a board, but I have a dilemma and was hoping someone had answers for me.
I emailed the pastor at my home parish yesterday to ask a few questions about how to get married in the situation I'm currently in (my fiance is stationed in Japan and can't attend traditional in-person marriage prep). I explained that my mother and I have been parishioners there for most of my life (I wasn't baptized there, but I celebrated my First Communion and Reconciliation there, as well as my Confirmation). I'm away at university right now (as in, I can't just drive home to go to Mass; it's a three-hour drive just one-way.) Mass is held on campus, which is what I've been doing. I can't register at the parish up here because (a) I do not maintain a permanent residence in this area and (b) after May, I won't even be living out here, l'll be going back to my home parish and (c) that's not even technically where I worship; I worship at a chapel on-campus. The pastor at home informed me that because I am not registered and practicing at the church at home (which... I'm not even sure how I'm not registered there. Like I said, we have gone to church there for the majority of the time I've been alive) I cannot be married there.
Essentially, I cannot be married at my home parish because I don't attend Mass there (and am possibly not registered... does anyone know how I may have been un-registered?), but I cannot be married out here because I am not registered here, don't actually live out here, and won't be living out here.
Does anyone have any advice as to what I should do?