Ok so we are getting married in exactly one month. Mine and Fi's IMMEDIATE family are invited. I am also close to the rest of my family like cousins etc. We all grew up together. However due to many reasons we decided to keep wedding small, intimate, and immediate family only. I do stay in touch with my friends and family via facebook, pretty much on a daily/weekly basis. I haven't seen them in years as they live in other states. Even the times I have went home to visit my immediate family I still haven't seen my cousins etc at those times. Is it ok if I just send them a mass message stating that I will be getting married and while I wish I could celebrate with everyone long distance we decided to keep it very small. I just don't want wedding photos popping up all over facebook and them finding out that way. What do you think?