I've found myself in a bit of a situation.
You know how most brides have their dads walk them down the aisle and everyone is happy? Yeah well, if life could only be that easy.
My parents have been divorced since I was 3, and my dad moved to Texas when I was about 5. Needless to say, I don't see or talk to my dad much except for a handful of times each year. I decided that I wanted to have my mom walk me down the aisle.. she's been there for me throughout my entire life. She's raised me, taught me everything I know, got me through my fiancé's deployment last year, and has supported the two of us so much with this wedding. To be honest, I don't even think my dad likes my fiancé.. and for no good reason other than he doesn't know him and my fiancé is 'taking his little girl away'. (Which I think is just ridiculous.. he chose that path YEARS ago and decided to not be a part of our lives)
But he's the type of guy who I KNOW will cause a stink when I tell him I'm having my mother walk me down the aisle. He'll get to drinking a bit that night and start to run his mouth and I absolutely do not want any drama on my wedding day. I was thinking of having him do a reading at the ceremony so at least he will feel a part of things, because I do respect him in the sense that I know without him I would not be here today.
I don't want my dad to walk me, and I know without a doubt that my mom deserves that honor. How do I break it to my dad without sounding like a huge jerk and causing hurt feelings? I know I shouldn't even care, but I do.