My MOH who I have been friends with since the 6th grade, back out of my wedding last night 1 week before my wedding. She lives over an hour away and has no job, 3 kids and a boyfriend who supports them. I understood that she might not be able to help out finacially as much. Me and my mother had discussed this and she was okay with helping her. About 3 months or so ago, EVERY plan that we had made and would go on she would start getting sick and had to leave (which is tipcal of her bc she likes all the attention to be on her and IS ALWAYS SICK). As soon as I had arrived at my bachlorette party that she did not plan (my fiances sister had put in all the money and work to do it) the MOH was running to the bathroom every 10 minutes which was very embarassing especially since she had been drinking margaritas before I was there and acted fine. She ended up leaving after dinner and not going to a ball game with us like we had planned. About a month later things just seemed to get worse. Last week I had mentioned to her that she still had a lot going on and wasnt feeling the best and I wanted to make sure that she was going to be able to make it to the wedding. I had told the girls I had someone coming who would do all our hair the day of the wedding and it would be $20 not much at all. She said she didnt want to pay for her hair to get done and would do it herself. I even offered to pay for her hair. After everything she continued to talk and not let me get a word in at all. I'm not trying to be selfish and havent been this whole time and hardly asked for anything from the girls. She said that she should prob not be in the wedding and backed out. I had printed all our programs and now am feeling very disappointed. I have a friend who we took dress shopping and found one in her size same color not the style though. I asked and mentioned to all the bridesmaids that I was going to have her be the maid of honor ONLY bc she had a different dress... everyone is fine with it but my fiances sister bc she has done a lot for the wedding but I just didnt want the other dresses to clash... PLEASE HELP? I dunno what to do? am I wrong?? ; (