Ok so idk how to make it even for all the parents involved in helping us pay for our wedding...and I dont want to be rude because all 4 parents are very dear to me. The situation is my mom agreed to pay for the cake, well first of all we were going to do a dessert bar we were quoted 300$ for 6-8 different desserts but we then decided we would do just cake which is going to save about 200$ less then the dessert bar so just over 100$ for 3 cakes that will feed all of guest. My dad is going to pay for the dj which is going to be between 200-300$..and then the food which my FH mom and dad have decided to pay for which is not going to be a lot because its going to be a very simple dinner of sandwiches and salads which grandmothers on FH sides are planning to make. So in the end my dad is paying for 100-200$ more then anybody and I feel this is not very fair for him How do I approach this situation without seeming rude? I love all of them so much and greatly appreciate all of there help and dont want to hurt anyones feelings. Hope I explained this ok.