My engagement ring is a bit of an odd shape (four small diamonds in a swirl shape, laying flush to my finger) which makes a bit of a big ring. I've tried wearing small rings with it to see what size of wedding band i should go for, but no matter what size ring i've tried on with it, it's very uncomfortable and sits either crooked or awkwardly close to the finger joint. I've been considering wearing just the wedding band (once we're married) but i wasn't sure if doing this would be breaking tradition or offensive. Is it?