My FI is absolutely refusing to let me come with him to look at tuxes. He hasn't seen my dress and isn't really aware of all the details. 1) I want to at least be fond of the tux he chooses and 2) I wanna at least point him in the right direction when it comes to how we will look together. I'd be fine with not being allowed to be there if he'd at least let my mom or brother come along, as they have both seen my dress, but he's not willing to compromise about this. We agreed on a formal wedding and before I bought my dress I showed him pics of dress in general to get a feel for what he liked...He won't even talk about the tux search, without accusing me of being overbearing How many of you were apart of the tux shopping process, and if you weren't how'd that work out for you?