An acquaintance who happens to be good friends with one of my bridesmaids invited herself to our wedding the other day. It went a little something like this...
On what started out to be a fun evening my MOH, one of my BMs, Sally Somebody (self-invitee) and I were chit chatting. We happen to be as far away in conversation from the wedding plans as possible when out of the depths of no wheres-ville Sally Somebody says, 'I am invited to your wedding RIGHT?!' My initial thought was, 'whoa there Sally settle down your free booze and party pants that's really rude' but I responded with a polite, 'we are trying to keep our event small and mostly family.'
Then with a skip and heartbeat I changed the subject and tried to bean dip my way away from the awkward that was settling in. Instead of letting the rudeness die (as she should) she responded with 'well then I'll just be someone's +1 then because I am going.' Then my lovely BM states that Sally can be her +1. I am really not close with this person as I barely know her. She is definitely not a SO so I don't think those rules apply here. How would you handle a situation like that?
My MOH came up to me later stating how awkward and impolite it was for Sally to invite herself. She recommended I speak to the BM about the situation/discomfort and so I did. I am just curious if that was the best way to go. Let me know your opinions...